Transform Self-Presentation Anxiety into Social Effectiveness E-Zine and Speak Without Fear

Stop Agonizing About Presenting Yourself to Others ... NOW!

* Is Presenting or Promoting Yourself Difficult?

* Do You Lack Speaking Confidence?

* Do You Hate Small Talk?

If You Answered "Yes" To Any Of The Above ...

This May be the Most Important Website You Ever Read

Dr. Signe A. Dayhoff
Social Effectiveness Guru

	If you long to speak easily and painlessly with customers ...
	If you imagine that day when you comfortably meet with your subordinates or teammates to discuss projects or issues ...
	If you can see what it would be like to "shoot the breeze" with influential others and make important career connections ... because you're confident and competent ... and it's no problem ...

Then ...

I can help you ...

... Explode your fears ...

... Skyrocket your confidence ...

... Master presentation situations ...

... Make your conversation dreams come true ...

Finally! You can meet and talk with people almost anywhere, anytime, as frequently as you want!

... And transform your life.

(This may sound too good to be true ... but it is true.

I know ... because I've been there ... and ... I've done it!)

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

I'm Signe A. Dayhoff, Ph.D., your social effectiveness mentor. As a recovered social phobic ... psychologist ... and interpersonal skills expert, I know what you have experienced. and how you want to speak without fear now

... I was socially anxious ... conversationally-challenged ... with little confidence or self-esteem ... for many years.

I used to hide behind doors so I didn't have to answer the phone or doorbell. When I had to attend a social gathering, I stood on the periphery, clutching a glass, looking at my feet, trying to blend in with the wallpaper.

If I had to speak, I stood with my mouth open, waiting for some intelligent words to form and spill out. But it rarely happened because my brain was frozen. When I was lucky, I managed a nodding "ah" and "uh-huh" or two ... and somehow got by.

But ... sometimes ... I was unlucky ... . I caved in to the almost-unbearable pressure of other people expecting me to respond. I knew I had to say something ... anything. And ... sad to say ... I did.

At meetings and presentations I always felt as if what I said consisted of babbling and stammering ... disjointed thoughts escaping from my mouth. I know I spoke but all I could see was myself standing in front of my audience ... red faced ... sweating ... incredibly embarrassed. I always somehow got through it but all I wanted was for the floor to open up and swallow me.

At those moments ... I would have given anything ... for Harry Potter's Cloak of Invisibility.

All I ever really wanted ... as a business person and professional ... was to talk with people confidently and comfortably ... formally and informally ... to make contacts, clients, friends, build relationships ... and enjoy doing it!

Sound familiar?

Unfortunately, my struggle with social anxiety was before the problem became the clinical and media focus it is today. As a result, I had to spend about 1,087 hours doing research and going through slow, slogging, agonizing trial and error ... to see what worked.

But my patience, persistence, and practice paid off handsomely. I figured out what I needed to do. I did it. And ... finally ... I overcame my conversation- and self-presentation obstacles. What an indescribably tremendous relief that was ... and is!

Because so many others struggled with this problem, I have worked "in the trenches" with hundreds upon hundreds of sufferers, with business people and professionals in all areas of endeavor.

I have also talked with the top clinical researchers in the field, and tapped into their experiences, expertise, and findings. (Many of them were kind enough to endorse my social anxiety book too as a result.)

The upshot is that over the last 20+ years I have gathered the best clinically-proven tools and developed a wide range of effective, systematic interpersonal strategies that can ... at last! ... help you too ...

Help You To ...

... Alleviate your speaking anxiety in business and personal situations

... Develop your conversational confidence and social savvy,

... Improve your work communications and interpersonal skills, and

... Forge relationships to meet your bottom line goals.

... The GOOD NEWS is ... you don't have to go through the deadly slow, agonizing, hit-or-miss, trial-and-error process ... that I did ... to do it!

If You Want to Present and Promote Yourself

More Confidently and Effectively ...

Now ...

... You CAN !

You can do it through my Self-Presentation & Stage Fright Coaching, Newsletter, Articles, E-mail Consulting, Teleseminars, E-Courses, and Books. To date, 22,437 (and counting) have already done it.

You know it's time that you got to do the things you want to do.

You know ... in your heart of hearts ... that you deserve to do it too.

... Don't you owe this to yourself?

Imagine being able to

	Replace self-presentation- or small talk anxiety with confidence
	Speak effectively almost anywhere, any time, with anyone, about anything
	Use interpersonal skills to help you reach your work goals
	Grow your emotional savvy so you can read situations and other people
	Optimize and build on your existing strengths and relationships

Not only that ... imagine also being able to

Present the image you want to get your message across

Create productive, authentic personal and work interactions

Develop satisfying customer relationships

Promote yourself and your business in a way that gives meaning and purpose to what you do and satisfaction to your life.

Imagine how that could change your life!

FACT: Research shows that the #1 factor in personal, business, and professional success is "effective interpersonal skills."

"Effective interpersonal skills" means being able to talk to people!

To do this you have to ...

eliminate the obstacles to speaking ...

and replace them with success strategies and confidence.

And ... You CAN.

So What Can You Do?

You can eliminate speaking obstacles. You can develop the personal, interpersonal, and professional effectiveness skills and confidence you need for personal and work success.

As Napoleon Hill stated in his book Think and Grow Rich, "What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve."

If you can conceive of and believe in your becoming a confident and competent speaker, you can achieve it.

How?

You do it by discovering how to

	Present yourself effectively at work and play
	Create a favorable image that commands respect
	Communicate persuasively in any situation, from small talk to speeches
	Promote yourself comfortably without selling
	Create high-octane confidence for greater satisfaction in your relationships and career
	Deep-six fear of evaluation, change, failure, rejection, responsibility, commitment, risk taking, or success
	Condition your emotions and thinking to automatically work toward your goals, not against them
	Master handling criticism, rejection, and conflicts to improve relationships

You also do it by discovering how to

Recharge your motivation for focused action

Eliminate procrastination and perfectionism

Manage your stress and your time effectively

Identify and build on your fundamental character strengths, virtues, and abilities

Reap the rewards of a realistic, positive orientation

Refocus and commit yourself to success-oriented goals

Overcome the obstacles and challenges of self-presentation anxiety and marketing reluctance

Generate and act on personal and professional opportunities.

You Can Overcome Your Presentation Anxiety

... And Become More Interpersonally Effective

My services and products provide you with the scientifically-proven speaking-anxiety elimination methods ... interpersonal effectiveness strategies ... strength- and attitude-enhancing mindset tools ... the and education-based strategies you need to create the positive changes you want.

Specifically, they help you replace ...

the ineffective with the effective ...

the negative with the positive ...

rusty speaking skills with confident self-presentation and conversation.

They show you how to

	Reprogram your ineffective thinking, emotions, and behavior
	Remove obstacles and replace them with positive action and results
	Recreate yourself and your business for success, limitless growth, and fulfillment
	Revitalize your personal and professional life to achieve your dreams.

Want to Break Free? Start NOW!

... With on-target suggestions, tips, stories, events, news, announcements, and relevant offers to help you improve your social effectiveness ...

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Whenever Your Business and Professional
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Self-Presentation and Personal Promotion

Competence and Confidence,
Dr. Signe Can Help You Meet Your Challenge ... And SUCCEED!

Yours in social effectiveness,

Dr. Signe

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